Sep 15, 2010

the don'ts during raya

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here are some of the dont's that you really should observe during raya (or any gathering for that matter):

- if you came in 10s and 20s, please la do not seat yourself at the 6-seater table. Others wants to eat also, not have your leftovers. Do it buffet style instead la.

- if you came early to the host's house, please3x do NOT finish the food, before the other guests have arrived. even if it is your favorite food. you dont know if the hosts have any second serving of it. nanti tuan rumah nak jamu apa kat tetamu dia.. ish, buruk betul perangai..

- please do not take all the best food to yourself, without any left for the hosts or other guests. i had a guest who took all the large prawn to herself, when we specifically made the dish to ensure each guest would have 1 large prawn each. adoi..

- we do give out kuih raya to relatives, SOME of course. orang kata buat buah tangan je. bukan la kita nak tolong penuhkan meja orang tuh.. ini gie kasi punya banyak kuih kat 1 person.. kuih raya ni mahal tau... it's not as if the one we have are limitless, nanti nak jamu orang yg dtg rumah lagi.. *pening*

tolong2 la keep your manners in check.. ini, yg laki pun "bongok", yang perempuan pun tak reti (manners).. i cannot imagine bila korang kawin nanti camne.. sigh.. dalam family kitorg takde yg camni tau?

Sep 14, 2010

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Bukan nak ngata.. Tapi heran la jugak... Skrg dah bulan9, nak kawin bulan depan..
- duit hantaran still2k short
- rumah nak kawin (kenduri in dec) still tak siap2 lagi
- korang nak sediakan a second set of hantaran.. Da first dah kasi masa tunang harituh tak cukup lagi ka?
The groom dah la can barely pay for his own bike, the girl pulak (altho mmg la baik budaknya) is just a student.. Family pun duduk rumah flat je.. Baloi ke nak demand hantaran sampai 8k? Nasib baik my auntie dah sediakan cincin emas utk anak dia sebelum meninggal.. Kot tak terbeli. Dah tuh, belah perempuan mula2 nak suruh tambah rantai on top of everything? Good thing u changed ur mind..
Either korang tak reti nak budget Or expecting orang lain nak tolong hulur.. Untuk kenduri korang.. Nak buat biarlah ukur baju kat badan sendiri.. Nak tunjuk kat sapa?

P/s: mujur bukan my wedding.. But kitorg yg family terdekat, terasa kesian la jugak.. Pressure pun ada, karang x pasal2 nak kena tanggung wedding orang, sedangkan bincangnya idak.. Isy, kacau betul..

what say you....

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It's easy to place a blame,
but hard to mend a relationship.
It's easy to give up,
but hard to make it work..

Face it, you both have made errors. After all you're but a human.. Tapi patutnya yg muda minta maaf pada yg lagi tua.. Yg anak minta maaf pada ibu..after all, if it's for the greater good, why not? It's only your soul at stake, isnt it?

Sep 10, 2010

Selamat Hari Raya Aidilfitri

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Selamat hari raya, maaf zahir batin atas segala-galanya. Moga2 ibadat kita diterima Allah dan marilah kita bergembira & bermaaf-maafan.



P/s: fuyoo abang balik raya kali ni!! *amazed but sad that it has come to this... *

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