Princess Lilue

I taste like Bread. I am a staple in almost everyone's diet. Friends like me are a complement to any other friends I get on with almost everyone, remaining mostly in the background, but providing substance when it would otherwise be lacking. What Flavour Are You?

Don't you find it irritating that people always assume the worst about you.. ? For example, people always thinks that overseas student are such loose people, partying all nite and such.. as well as the other extreme, joining those cult-like religious groups and whatnots.. i mean, sure, there were people like that there.. and some of them, i might or might not know them personally. But doesnt mean that i have to be like that.. so don't la be so surprised that i'm not.. there was..are a lot of "normal" people, like you and me, who did study overseas, and stayed as they are.. not everyone ended up with a "cultural shock", you know.. altho i have to admit that i had a "cultural shock" coming back to Malaysia.. heheh.. will save that for another time..

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Best betul Mdm.KS.. already her husband had the morning sickness instead of her.. due to being induced, she had a pretty speedy delivery, abt 1 hr je... by the time we went to visit her, she definitely did not look like she had just given birth a few hours earlier..hehe.. berkat doa husband & family kot.. alhamdullilah..

Congrats to Mdm.KS & hubby..!! She safely gave birth to a baby boy, at noon in Pantai.

Is it possible to fall for someone you've met for the first time? I personally dont believe in that.. i guess you can really really like someone.. but fall in love? agree to marry that person immediately? dunno la..

maybe i'm cynical.. maybe it's just coz i'm a complex person and it's difficult for me to get close to someone (and vice versa).. it's not easy for me you know, to go out with perfect strangers, whom other people deems to be suitable for me.. sure, i'm single and all, but at the same time, i'm not about to say yes to any tom, dick or harry that comes along, just for the sake of getting married :( if that was the case, i doubt i'd still be single now, no? marriage is a big thing.. you cannot expect a girl to make a decision after a few phone calls & 1 meeting?? at least not this girl anyway.. hehe

i dont want to be married becaused it is expected of me, because everyone else is already married & i'm not, because other people say that he's a decent enough of a guy.. i'm not saying he's not, coz i'm sure he is.. i'm just saying that i dont think he's the guy for me.. i do feel a little guilty abt not giving the guy a chance.. maybe i should have.. but even from the start i didnt feel right abt it.. maybe coz i've got someone else in mind.. maybe i'm just not ready.. maybe just coz i hate being rushed.. but i'm just trying to go with my gut feeling on this.. and given how serious this guy abt looking for a wife, i doubt i can go with the "why dont we just be friends for now" line.. (been thru that before, believe me.. it doesnt work..)

On the other hand, just coz i like someone, doesnt mean that it will work out.. i'm afraid to hope for too much, i guess.. or maybe i think too much with my head, instead of my heart.. ntah le.. kalau ada jodoh tuh ada la..



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To Miss.Best.Friend..

Honey... i'm soooo happy for you.. Glad i was there when it happened.. Girl, you are so lucky.. or rather he is lucky to have you.. heheh.. Also thanks a lot, to both of you for making last weekend a great one.. hehe.. we'll see what's the outcome ek.. you better make sure i'm around when you finally set your date, k.. ahaks..

You gave me a wink,
And smiled your smile.
At that moment,
My heart just floated away.

I like you,
And I think you like me.
If you didn't,
Why would you want to get together?

In my eyes,
You are sweet.
In my eyes,
You are you.

Maybe it will work out,
Maybe it won't.
Only time will tell.
But I will always care for you.

By Chole(http://www.netpoets.com/poems/love/1254002.htm)

http://postsecret.blogspot.com/

Yeay.. tomorrow i'll be going to Pangkor with Miss.Best.Friend & geng.. even tho this is gonna be a pretty short trip, but a trip nonetheless.. hehe.. nampak sgt dah lama tak cuti.. Hopefully it's gonna be a good one, given the group of people who's going.. will tell all once i'm back..

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Was talking to Mdm.KS yesterday.. how sad is it that i only know abt friend's news & updates thru their blogs? very, isnt it? hehe.. otherwise, given how "often" i 'dont call, let alone meet up with them, blogs do help a lot.. hehe.. god, what have technology turned us into?? :o so have to try to make more effort this year to meet up with people.. One way is to try to meet up with Mdm.KS on her turf for a change, since i'm crashing over at Miss.Best.Friend's crib tonite.. it still have ceased to surprised me that somehow my friends ended up in the same place.. hehe.. good for me tho, sekali harung je... haha.. Anyway, this would probably be the last time i see Mdm.KS before the delivery.. so hopefully the next time, i'll be seeing you & the little one..

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On other news.. Parents dearest are seriously thinking of leaving The Island & move here.. have not made the final decisions just yet.. but then, we have been thinking about it for a while.. on the details, still on the sketchy side but i think we're on to something already.. will see how this goes.. but wont be in anytime soon though..


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Was reading abt this senator who got fined over sms divorce.. i think the judge made a pretty good comment.. judge Zainor Rashid Hassin said: ”When you marry someone, you are to go through all the processes like merisik, bertunang, bernikah and bersanding. Now, why can’t you divorce someone properly as well.” I mean, if you really want to end it, go la face the person & say it upfront (or at least thru someone u trust).. duh... besides why on earth la would u want to do this thru sms? some people can be so weird..


erk.. already late.. i better leave now before anyone catches me for more work stuff.. ciao..

You're a smart guy.. i'm sure you've figured out by now why we stay away from you... Why we turned a blind eye to whatever she does.. why we accept whatever excuse you guys cooked up for us, no matter how crappy it is..
you realised now how much it hurts her.. and sadly, you now realised that you cannot do anything abt it..

At least before you were far away, we can still kid ourselves that it didnt matter.. but now that you're just a stone throw away.. so near yet so far.. and it hurts even more.. think for yourselves what you need to do now..

Lilue took the free ColorQuiz.com personality test! "Intense, vital, and animated, taking a delight in ..." Click here to read the rest of the results.

Your Existing Situation
Imaginative and sensitive; seeking an outlet for these qualities--especially in the company of someone equally sensitive. Interest and enthusiasm are readily aroused by the unusual or the adventurous.
Yeah right.. more like a magnet to weirdos that is..

Your Stress Sources
Has an unsatisfied need to ally herself with others whose standards are as high as her own, and to stand out from the herd. This desire for preeminence isolates her and inhibits her readiness to give herself freely. While she wants to surrender and let herself go, she regards this as a weakness which must be resisted. This self-restraint, she feels, will lift her above the rank and file and ensure recognition as a unique and distinctive personality.

Your Restrained Characteristics
Willing to participate and to allow herself to become involved, but tries to fend off conflict and disturbance in order to reduce tension.
Remains emotionally unattached even when involved in a close relationship.
Circumstances are forcing her to compromise, to restrain her demands and hopes, and to forgo for the time being some of the things she wants.

Your Desired Objective
Intense, vital, and animated, taking a delight in action. Activity is directed towards success or conquest and there is a desire to live life to the fullest.

Your Actual Problem
Takes a delight in action and wants to be respected and esteemed for her personal accomplishments.

I was out with the adventurous two, mdm KS_girl & hubby last weekend.. aiyo.. mem, you're already ready for maternity leave end of this month, still wanna go berkelah ke? luckily the spot we chose doesnt allow her to get close to the river, so no worries there la.. and lucky for us, it only started raining on our way back.. considering that we started a bit later than planned due to the unexpected car trouble.. had to get my car towed to Glenmarie..

had been awhile since i've done such outdoorsy stuff.. the last one was during one of our office team building thingy, but given the company & the trekking we had to do to get to the place, not quite as exciting.. anyway, we had fun.. Ms.Comic Book brought her bro along.. we bbq'ed some food.. basically hang out.. pretty relaxing..

Looking at the adventurous two, i sometimes wondered.. how lucky they are to have found each other.. i mean, how do you make 2 people from different families, different locations, different ..etc, well, together.. ? i get the concept, but realising it is like..so difficult..

1. Do not walk behind me for I may not lead. Do not walk ahead of me for I may not follow. Do not walk beside me for the path is narrow. In fact just fck off and leave me alone.

2. The journey of a thousand miles begins with a broken fan belt and a flat tire.

3. The darkest hour is just before dawn. So if you're going to steal your neighbor's paper, that's the time to do it.

4. Sex is like air. It's not important unless you aren't getting any.

5. Don't be irreplaceable. If you can't be replaced, you can't be promoted.

6. No one is listening until you fart.

7. Always remember you're unique. Just like everyone else.

8. Never test the depth of the water with both feet.

9. If you think nobody cares whether you're alive or dead, try missing a couple of mortgage payments.

10. Before you criticize someone, you should walk a mile in their shoes.
That way, when you criticize them, you're a mile away and you have their shoes.

11. If at first you don't succeed, skydiving is not for you.

12. Give a man a fish and he will eat for a day. Teach him how to fish, and he will sit in a boat and drink beer all day.

13. If you lend someone $20 and never see that person again, it was probably worth it.

14. If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything.

15. Some days you are the bug; some days you are the windshield.

16. Don't worry; it only seems kinky the first time.

17. Good judgment comes from bad experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment.

18. The quickest way to double your money is to fold it in half and put it back in your pocket.

19. A closed mouth gathers no foot.

20. Duct tape is like the Force. It has a light side and a dark side,and it holds the universe together.

21. There are two theories to arguing with women. Neither one works.

22. Generally speaking, you aren't learning much when your lips are moving.

23. Experience is something you don't get until just after you need it.

Someone will always be prettier.
They will always be smarter.
Their house will be bigger.
They will drive a better car.
Their children will do better in school.
Their husband will fix more things around the house.

So let it go, and love you and your circumstances.
Think about it.....
The prettiest woman in the world can have hell in her heart.
The most highly favored woman on your job may be unable to have children.
The richest woman you know -- she's got the car, the house, the clothes-- might be lonely.

So.......love you. Love who you are right now. Tell yourself "I am too blessed to be stressed." Be blessed ladies and pass this on to encourage another woman.

"To the world you might be one person, but to one person you just might be the world".


Send this to all of the wonderful women you know....I just did.


"LeArN Fr0m YeStErDaY, LivE FoR T0DaY, HoPe FoR T0m0rRoW"